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Earlier this year, I succumbed to the world of online social
networking. I created a facebook page. I spent the
first 2 months catching up with old friends and building a mafia
to battle against invisible foes. After the newness wore
off, I found myself wondering what I was doing in this online
reality.
I looked over at my scrappy desk and a tumbleweed rolled
by. Eeek! I sat down to try to figure out what role
facebook could still play in my life. All things can be
fabulous in moderation, but that initial obsession needed to
dissipate. I took a deep breath and abandoned my mafia.
I decided that my friends really did not need to know if I was
going to the grocery store or if I was having corn dogs for
dinner. I searched a few of my scrappy faves and added in
some friends that would remind me to get my bottom back to my
desk. It is shocking how quickly time can pass online!
I found my happy medium (ok, I still get sucked into a game
every now and again and have to step away) and am enjoying both
online and in life realities.
At the beginning of November, a batch of those scrappy
facebook friends decided to battle through the stresses of the
holiday season with an "attitude of gratitude". Not by
making a mini album or a layout, but by changing their status
reports daily to reflect something they are thankful for in that
moment. Yes, 30 days of thankfulness.
At first it was easy. After all, we are all thankful
for husbands, children, homes, hobbies. Around day 10, we
were thankful for Starbucks, chocolate, and bubble baths.
By day 20, it got really tough, but also really special.
After 20 days of living a life that looks for something nice to
say, everything seemed a bit brighter. I have long heard
the adage "fake it until you make it" and this was a perfect
instance.
Each woman chose happiness each and every day.
Certainly there were rough spots in those days, but the focus
stayed on the positive. And because of the nature of
facebook, the thankfulness did not stay on a scrappy desk, but
trickled into the lives of others. Hope is every bit as
contagious as hopelessness. Give it a try for your
holiday.
Wishing you a hopeful and thankful holiday season,


Inseparable by Dora Phillips
Supplies: Paper, Die-Cuts, Brads,
Alphabet: Pink Paislee, Journaling Card: Maya Road, Font: Georgia,
Other: ribbon.
Design Notes: I had fun stitching the
ribbon. Although it does not photo well, the black ribbon
is a rose hand stitched with a glitter brad center.
Journaling: The greatest gift Aunt Lisa
ever gave you was a cousin almost your own age. When you
are together, there is never a dull moment. The joy that
just explodes out of your faces just warms my heart. |